Confident to Create Part Six

Confident to Create Part 5

“Do not go gentle into that good night, but rage, rage,  against the dying of the light” Dylan Thomas

Confident to Create Part 4

“Its never to late to be what you might have been” George Eliot

Confident to Create Part 3

“I’m not afraid of storms, for I’m learning how to sail my ship.” Louisa May Alcott

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Confident to Create Part Two

“The way we choose to see the world creates the world we
see.”Barry Neil Kaufman

Inner Confidence To live Your Life Fearlessly

“Our deepest fear is not that we are inadequate. Our deepest fear is that we are powerful beyond measure.” – Marianne Williamson

Self-Confidence! It’s one of those things that even the best of us struggle with at times. We can often get down on ourselves and literally tear strips off ourselves.
But that’s never the way to go!
During times like this, we often feel as we did back when we were growing up. As teenagers in particular, we were more concerned about fitting in with the crowd, rather than going out and really doing what we want.
But now that we’re mature adults…(well sometimes )
…it’s time to have  confidence to do what we want in life!
Now whether you’re sixteen or sixty, this can be hard. We often fall into two traps:
1. That of not believing in ourselves; and
2. That of worrying about what other people think.
So! How do you get around these two traps and avoid getting stuck altogether?
Easy! We need to tackle each one and look each of those two traps fair and square in the eye.
You ARE brilliant!

Each human being has their own brilliance – the ability to go and create the life they want. The ability to CREATE all of those really great things they want out of life.
Life is favourable to us and ready to help us once we decide what we want, focus on the outcome as though it has already happened – and go for it!
We are brilliant because we have the ability to create our own reality and our outcomes.
Remember the quote I shared the other day with you by W. Clement Stone: “Whatever the mind…can conceive it can achieve.”
So replace those words of, “I can’t do it! It’s too hard!” to, “I can do this, I will get there”
And as for what other people think of you…
…WHO CARES! All that matters is what YOU think of YOU!
It’s YOUR thinking – YOUR thoughts – that create your reality. What other people think about you has no power whatsoever.
So do not feel limited by what other people say and think.
Remember that you are BRILLIANT – and believe it at all times!
Just recently I read a superb quote by Dr. Daniel Amen, as published in Jack Canfield’s book, “The Success Principles: How to Get From Where You Are to Where You Want to Be.”
The quote is actually called the 18/40/60 Rule and it goes like this:
“When you’re 18, you worry about what everybody is thinking of you; when you’re 40, you don’t give a darn what anybody thinks of you; when you’re 60, you realize nobody’s been thinking about you at all.”
So there you go!
One of life’s greatest mysteries unraveled right before your eyes, right here!
Your thoughts and your thoughts alone are the ONLY ones that have power of you. So remember your brilliance. Believe it at all times…and go for whatever you want in life with REAL confidence!

Action Project:

1. Remind yourself of at least 3 times you allowed yourself to shine and write these times down
2. From how you feel when you “shine” write down 3 goals, dreams or projects you would love to achieve
3. Choose to start and make one inspired action today to start your journey

Further Reading:

• “Instant Confidence”  Paul McKenna
• “You Can Have What You Want” Michael Neill

Fearless !

‘Somebody should tell us …right at the start of our lives…that we are dying.Then we might live to the limit,every minute of every day.Do it! I say. Whatever you want to do, do it now! There are only so many tomorrows” Michael Landon

Be fearless …What will you do today ?

Confident to Create Part 1

The desire for more money…the power of enthusiasm (part 2)

When you feel GREAT about your goal, you go a long way to materializing it!
There’s a great quote that was in that famous film and book, “The Secret” that was spoken by W. Clement Stone when he was alive. He said – and it is quoted in “The Secret” that,
“Whatever the mind…can conceive it can achieve.”
Now what an amazing, amazing quote that is!
If we can actually see an outcome – no matter how great or out of this world it is – in our minds, then we can actually achieve that in REAL LIFE!
That’s because we are emitting if you like – energy – that attract to us the circumstances and the people that help us bring that wonderful visualization to life but more importantly we notice opportunities to provide great service to others !
The more amazing and passionate we feel, the stronger that magnetic energy…
Now that’s got to give you something to get really, really excited about!
Feeling great about a goal isn’t just nice warm and fuzzy feelings. It’s actually a very powerful and real force that brings everything we need into our lives, to turn our goals into realities!
So pay close attention to all those wonderful goals you have…and feel great about them, and most importantly take action on them now! Because when you do that, an amazing journey unfolds!

The Desire for more Money (Part 1)

As a coach, I work with many people who list as one of their greatest desires, “wanting MORE money!”
Now, seriously – is there any one of us right now who can honestly say, “No. I don’t think I want any more money coming into my life”?
If we all get 100% honest with ourselves, the desire for more money is often present.
We want it!
But many people don’t attract money into our lives!
And why is that?
I mean after all, they WANT it.
And it’s that word ‘want’ that contributes to us not attracting money into our lives.
You see, if you keep on saying to yourself, “I want more money”, you are just going to attract more situations and circumstances into your life of wanting more money.
You have to shift our train of thought – your affirmations – to having the money already.
So instead of, “I want to make £200,000 this year” you could say, “I am so grateful now that I am enjoying my £200,000 per year lifestyle!” Ah, maybe its about what you think money allows you to do ?
And then take a few moments to close your eyes and feel the feelings of having that lifestyle RIGHT NOW!
When you feel GREAT about your goal, you go a long way to materializing it

Further reading: I can make you rich by Paul McKenna
How to make one hell of a profit and still go to Heaven Dr John F Demartini

Please watch this great clip from Byron Katie